Making a first impression

What up playa's!

I just recently read a book, which I highly recommend called “Get Anyone To Do Anything” by David j. Lieberman, PH.D. It made it onto New York Times Bestseller list!

Perhaps some of you have read it. It’s an easy read and has a wealth of information for all PUA’s regardless of your skill level. It’s a book on how to control and influence every situation you find yourself in! It talks about and gives detail descriptions how to use secret psychological tricks…

One particular chapter I found interesting as I use it on every set I approach, In fact, I use this technique all day and every day.

Smiling! ;-) J J

I can’t say enough about smiling and how it sub-communicates so many positive emotions and thoughts to someone else…I believe it to be one of the best tactic’s you could use when meeting ANYONE! Let’s break it down further, as smiling will communicate 4 major attributes about YOU! There is something called Primacy Effect: “It’s the process whereby our first impression of another person causes us to interpret his or her subsequent behavior in a manner consistent with first impressions”, which just means that our first impression of someone is crucial So, why handicap yourself by not doing something so easy and simply, like smiling? And don’t give me any bullshit, you are guilty of not smiling just about an hour ago when you ordered your latte from Starbucks…You probably threw some routine out and acted all different and cool, but I KNOW you forgot to smile! So, smiling conveys Confidence, Happiness, enthusiasm, acceptance…

· Confidence…We all wants to show confidence in set, or in any situation!
· Happiness… We always want to show beautiful women we are happy or in a good mood!
· Enthusiasm… What’s that saying, enthusiasm is contagious, hell yes it is!
· Acceptance… I love this one; it simply means you accept the person for who they are! Huge ice breaker, by smiling you show this person that “hey, I don’t know you yet, but I like what I see”!

Some people have better smiles than other. I know a dude that hates to smile, he thinks he looks retarded when he tries to show off those pearly whites, and on a sad note, he is right, he does look stuck on stupid…However, with a few adjustments and beliefs that he is genuinely a confident, happy, enthusiastic, and real person, his smile works every time!

Try spending the day smiling at everyone you see…smile at your co-workers, smile at your mom, smile at the hottie while waiting at a traffic light…You will get positive reactions, you have to, it LAW of nature and human existence!

Side note, I am happy to add the Captain himself, Mr. Captain Jack! I have added his link on my blog home page. For those of you how do not know who the good Captain is, please take a moment and visit his blog, as you will find more information and archives regarding game that should keep you busy for at least a day or two J. Of course for those of you who do know CJ, I need no more introductions.

By the way CJ, when are you going to release some new SNL FR’s, would like to read up on a couple or so…

Everyone, have a great week and weekend…Until next time…Later Gators!