It's all about learing!

The post below is a recent post I submitted to the Detroit Lair. I worked with an individual and some of the members wanted to know how it went. Of course my student posted how the nite went, but it was very basic....He basically said how much fun he had and how I opened his eyes.

I felt I should elaborate a little more. I do not follow any set formula if you will. I draw from my 38 years of living on this earth.

I know the new edge or the new style of pick up is to be "Natural"...However, my attitude is, "Great, natural is the way you not only find yourself quality women, it opens up a new way to become part of many social circles! Everyone loves a real person that brings value...No one like a bullshitter!

Please enjoy!

This is a two part post!

As with all my valued “Friends” that have worked with me, gone out with me, and have received a custom routine stack, each one of them can honestly say without doubt, there games have improved, and some have supercharged there game.

Let me say that the Sonny’s of the world are the ones I work best with.(Sonny is a local guy from the Lair that received a glance into the world of Alexanders Life Skills). And generally experience the fastest and best results. Any gamer out there that is working hard on improving his overall structure and skill set must be willing to put in the time and learn the ideas and behaviors of women and women psychology.
This is critical! How are you going to effectively meet ladies when you’re having trouble calibrating yourself or at the very least “know what kind of women” you are dealing with?

The great news is, knowing what type of chic you are dealing with is easy…example…

Party girl/stripper/super hott (cares only about what she looks like and how you make her feel and look, generally very shallow, and bitchy, at the same time you must know it’s not her fault. Her whole life she has been catered to and has all the attention she needs from guys! Validating her is weak and common, this women needs to chase you! You must set frames and hoops that will make her ask you questions. Qualifying should be your goal.

The smart girl (cares a lot about honesty and congruence). Be careful, it’s a fine line between party girl and smart girl, both can be super hott. The only exception is the smart girl will call your ass out in a heart beat, should you come across to “gamey” or nervous. Your goal is to set frames that will spike her curiosity, give a little and hold back a little, this type of women does not need cocky funny or negs, she’s smart enough to know you’re playing her, should you mis-calibrate and be all cocky and funny at the wrong time! Although, cocky funny with negs is MUCH better than being boring! Show this chic you can hang at her level and you are not intimated by her smarts, in fact that’s what you find attractive. Use routines based on factual events, current events, such as the Detroit Mayor and his assistant! Example…”Wow, can you believe what those two must be going thru? Never did they think it would get to this point, and let this be an example of what happens when an emotional connection happens between two people, when passion strikes, when we get lost in our fantasies, and the person you’re standing next to is dripping with sensuality, and lust, how can we stop those feelings? Those two had so much to lose, yet, they risked everything in the name of excitement, in the name of lust, passion, raw sex, and power!" Power is huge, place yourself in a position of power, no matter if you're the manager of Taco Bell, as long you can show you have power over others, the ladies are lined up to experience these feelings! You know, I like that, power frames...hmmm, I might work on those....Just gave myself an excellent idea!

Passionate girl…Love these types, set connection frames, set non-judgmental frames, use roll playing as a tool (and watch her laugh like never before), and seal the deal with heavy sexual frames…Most passionate women are extremely sexual! I have a great lay report I will submit soon. Met her on St. Paddy’s day and had her in my car masturbating within one hour of meeting her, while I filmed it on my camera phone, and took a shit load of pixs! Sonny and Sasha had the privilege of watching my short video clip! And the best part of it all, I was working with a student that evening and he watched the whole thing go down!

(If you're reading this my crazy little St. Paddy gal, you have no worries, as discussed in my car, I do not judge! Nor do I need to show-off to anyone at someone else's expense)!

Let’s talk natural for a second; being natural is what you were taught as a youngster. Example, you naturally learned to tie your shoes laces, you naturally learned to read, write, spell, and do math in school. Some of you learned to naturally play an instrument (not talking about your pecker, although, we all naturally learned how to jerk off, some better than others), or naturally learned to PICK UP ladies…

So, try and associate the things in life that come easy and naturally to you, all you have to do is simply copy that same behavior and learning patterns into every interaction you have with women.

Some of you may be saying, come on Alexander, what do you mean copy patterns and behaviors from thing that already come naturally to us and incorporate them into pick up? Think about it for a moment, really think, I’ll wait…mmmm…hmmmm…mmmm…Ok, you guys getting it yet?

How easy is it for you to brush your teeth in the morning? Easy, right!? No thought whatsoever! Why, because how f-ing simple is it to pull your tooth brush out, apply tooth paste, then brush away….You know when you’re done, because you covered all the basics of teeth cleaning, and the bitter taste of the tooth paste needs to be spit out!....Well, F**k dudes, same thing when talking to a hottie…You know you have to cover all the basics of Pick-up…Example, you need to create attraction, you need to create a connection, you need to nail comfort, and you know you need to close! Now, as simple as brushing your teeth, those steps should be just as easy in pick up!

I never have to think about making her smile or laugh…I never have to think about creating an attraction…and so on…those steps are simple…Do them enough and your game will greatly improve! Hope that helped some of you to better understand pick up is a natural thing; there is nothing more natural in this world than a man and women together! This planet has what, 6 billion people? That’s a lot of fucking, A LOT OF FUCKING! You think all that fucking had to do with routines and negs? Fuck no; it’s hard wired into our brains that we need to reproduce. So follow your instinct that says, “hey man, go make her nite by walking up and smiling and simply starting a conversation.

On part two, I will go into detail how to effectively turn every interaction into a positive one!

Of course this will be a BIG part of the next Lair talk! I’m not f-ing around when I say, with the help of others in this Detroit community, for each person on this lounge to have basic skills with women!

Final thought…I keep using the word basic, because that’s all you need is basic skills. When you clout your head with every little thing you read and these so called magical forum posts with people doing X to create Y which resulted into a 3some with playboy models, you find yourself dazed and confused! Don’t get me wrong, there is plenty of advanced material and skill sets, but including myself, I rarely need them!

Rock out with your cocks out!

~Alex

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Hey Detroit,

Long time no talk! I've been working on some great ideas! Big news is coming in regards to Detroit's Lair! I wish I could speak more about it, however, I want everyone to get ready for a Lair talk that will blow you away! DEAD serious!

All you guys that want to see actual PICK up - Live and up close will get a chance to see how its done! You will also have the chance to practice yourself on extremely sexy ladies!

More exciting information to come!

Talk soon...

~Alex

Bangin Models

Hello Detroit,

Thought I would post about a recent Lay. It was as tight as it gets - no games, no gimmicks, and no canned material, straight up natural shit! This is what we should all be striving for!

Let me explain quickly what I mean by “Straight up Natural”… A natural is comfortable with who he is, he understands where he currently stands socially. It makes no difference whether he is a student, works at Burger King, collects trash, or is a partner in a large law firm. He will make no excuse or try to side step the obvious. Trust me, no amount of canned material or routines will mask your true intentions, they ALWAYS come out!

Key here is: what ever you do or how ever you live, you must be able to communicate and sub-communicate that its part of your growth to bigger life accomplishments.

I promise you this, you will be able to have 9 and 10’s in your life as long as can you show them you have passion and drive in life. Most women will come along for the ride, and in most cases actually enjoy it more than someone that already accomplished his life goals, but then again, very few people can honestly say that have achieved there goals…

We as PUA’s need to show these beautiful women why they would want to be associated with us, and date us, and suck the nectar out of our root!

OK onward! Last week I was invited to a fashion try-out for models trying to get a last minute look, by a member of this lounge (out of respect I will not mention names, plus, I want to keep this hook up my secret…lolol)…Just kidding, I will be more than happy to announce who he is, with his permission that is!

I walk into a room of at least 40+ models, and most of them were smoking HOTT! It’s been a while since I was in the company of so many great looking women! Besides Las Vegas last week, but that doesn’t count, because Vegas is fantasy land…

Camera’s were set up to video each lady do her strut down the cat walk, all kinds of representatives were there to possibly hire some of these ladies, so you can imagine the pressure they must have all felt. This is where my skills and everyone reading this post would want to master. I knew it was a very sensitive situation, the slightest NEG or Gamey routine or pick up line would set her off and she would realize I was full of shit.

See, I did not represent any of the companies that would hire them, I did not represent any possible future opportunities…So, why would she waste her time talking to me, let along give me her contact info, and for the lov of anything holy, why would she actually leave the venue with me?!

I’ll tell you why…. Because I emotionally entered her world, I understood the pressure, I understood the competition, and I systematically communicated to each Model I talked to “I get what she’s going thru”…I exploited her emotions, and did in such a manner that she instantly felt a connection with me, and more importantly made me stand out from all the other dudes trying to grab her slightest attention.

I gave each girl I talked to honest feed back…example, I told this one smoking hottie that she didn’t smile enough. I was being real and giving her real feed back… “hey babe, you looked great out there, but the only thing I noticed that may have hurt you was you were not smiling” Instantly she agreed and was like “wow, you totally noticed that”
I noticed this one girl; her body language was very defensive and reserved. I simply rolled up and said “I know this is a big event for you, and I’m sure you’re nervous (kino kino kino), however, if I can make a small observation, I think it may help” she instantly was like “YEA, OMG, PLEASE WHAT WHAT” “Start smiling now” “Stop crossing your arms and looking like you just found out your boyfriend cheated on you” “Here, let’s act like we are best friends, start laughing with me…ha ha ha ha” At that point I put my arm around her (strong Kino)…and acted like we’ve know each other for ever! It totally broke her state and she opened up, when she did her walk, she did it well, she nailed it! This girl eventually came back to me after and gave me the biggest hug EVER! I was the MAN!
Every other model in there watched me talk to other girls and every girl wanted to know what the hell I was saying to all of them, because each and every one of them was smiling ear to ear!

Long story short, I have 6, no BULLSHIT, 6 phone numbers and 3 emails addresses. I also have pictures of these ladies; I have been in touch with each one of them.

But my favorite of them all, her name is Mandy! Mandy was so impressed that I understood her world and I could relate with her situation she instantly hooked onto me and never let go…I ended up bouncing her to my favorite hotel, can anyone take a guess? The Athenaeum…I have the whole nite documented with pixs, she modeled for me more ways than one! I was thinking about posting them here, I still may, but it would be a shame if they ever got back to her. Can I trust this lounge?

Final note, learn to latch onto women’s emotions and communicate and sub-communicate you understand her, you don’t judge her, and you respect her! Women love real men, there just isn’t enough real guys around, and that’s why someone like me has the pick of the litter. That was not meant for me to be cocky or a prick, I am simply saying I see on a daily basis what women want, and how hard it is for them to find it. Be that man!

Until next time,

Rock out with your cocks out!